Well it’s now coming to the end of week 2 of semester 1 of uni… This semester is definitely going really quickly… especially with my service audit project!! Anyway so since being back, I have furnished my bedroom and unpacked, and those were not easy things to do since I have loads of accumulated crap… We’ve also had a house warming bbq… went to the Melbourne Motor Show… and the Moomba Water Festival… Every year I go to the Moomba Festival and see everyone holding a toy they’ve won and I’ve always wanted one and this year, I finally got something… yay!! It’s been a crazy few weeks… so much to get done!!

So I’ve been back in Melbourne for a few days now and it’s good to be back… I’m still settling into my new place and updates on that later… It’s actually been quite hectic and I’ve had very little sleep… Yesterday… Tjia Wen came into the city to have dinner with Ash, Siew Peng and myself in conjuction with her birthday which was actually awhile ago but she was nice enough to wait for me to get back… hence Ash and I made a cake for her… the cake tasted good but there were some unfortunate circumstances, although Tjia Wen said she liked it so I’m glad. There’s still loads to get done before I can get fully settled in like buying some furniture and cleaning the place up. Fortunately, I have time this semester… or do I?!

In less than a week, I will be flying back to Melbourne for what I desperately hope is my last year in Melbourne. At the moment, I am trying to get done everything I need to including my application to Kendall College. Yes, I have finally decided on my future culinary institute! Kendall College is located in Chicago, IL a.k.a the windy city… I’m not exactly sure how it’ll turn out but the college sounds pretty good, it has been acknowledged as one of the top 10 culinary institutes in America, and the admissions staff are nice. If I get in, and I think I will as I was told that I was reserved a placement, it’ll another 4 years of study, but I am very excited. At the moment however, I will need to work hard to get through my final year, and I am actually feeling really good about it. I have my own personal goals for this year which I hope I can maintain.

One of the requirements for the application to Kendall is to write a short essay, of which I chose to write about my experience in Melbourne. Initially I didn’t really know what to write at all but as I looked back on the past 3 years, I really have learnt a lot and have enjoyed myself so much, despite complaining about Melbourne being boring all the time. I am definitely glad that I ended up in Melbourne, and I definitely won’t change it for anything.

As for my future plans, I don’t know if culinary school will work out for me, although I am determined to make it work. I don’t know how good I will be at it but I am definitely always interest and curious to learn more. But it’s going to be awhile before that happens.

It’s been awhile since I’ve been to a big family dinner with my maternal side of the family and it was loads of fun… I’ve forgotten how fun it was really. We’ve always had this dinner ever since I can remember, every Chinese New Year… my grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins from my mother’s side of the family would have a dinner together. Of course now, not everyone can make it, but there are also new faces… Nevertheless, it’s amazing how everyone has changed yet they are still the same… It was even more interesting when we started recalling old times, all the fun things we did together, all the tricks we played on each other, and all the embarrassing stories of each other we revealed.

We had the dinner at Golden Dragon City in Sea Park, which we haven’t been to in quite awhile… the food still tastes the same… I’m not sure how much th food costs there, but apparently it’s quite affordable and the food is excellent for the price you pay. All I can say is that it tastes pretty much the same as I remember it and it’s pretty decent. The dishes were, Yu Sang (a dish of Singaporean creation to celebrate Chinese New Year), shark’s fin soup, roast suckling pig, steamed fish with stewed pork, fragrant prawns, glutinous rice with preserved duck and Chinese sausages, and dessert.

Just to include into the entry, I had dinner with some friends yesterday night… and it was fun too. It was good to see Vin Li whom I haven’t seen in awhile now and since she’s working in Singapore now, it’s gonna be awhile until I see her again as well… that is unless she comes back to Melbourne. I loved that we ended the night playing Mahjong, no not the computer game where you pick a pair of mahjong tiles to eliminate them, the actual Chinese game which I consider is the equivalent to Poker just in terms of popularity. It was really fun, and it’s been awhile since I’ve played it so I was a little rusty.

Anyway now that the 3rd day is over, celebrations pretty much dies down from here on. It’s been an interesting 2-3 days, probably the most fun since I got back from the US.

So tomorrow is Chinese New Year otherwise known as Lunar New Year to those who are not Chinese but do celebrate it as well. These days it is also commonly known as the Spring Festival (春节/chun jie). It is considered one of the most important, or maybe even the most important date in the Chinese calendar, and there is basically 15 days of celebration (although these days only the 1st, 2nd and 15th days are technically celebrated).

When I was younger Chinese New Year was always a huge event with family reunions, going from house to house to visit relatives whom you didn’t even know existed, but these days we don’t really do that anymore. We only gather at one main house. Also this year is my first Chinese New Year back home for the past few years because I would always take up summer school, and it seems that we don’t make much of a fuss about it anymore.

Spring-cleaning

I’m not sure where or when the term spring-cleaning came about but before first day of the new year, there will always be a major cleaning-up for every household. Usually it is a few days process to make sure everything is spotless. This is also extremely important because we do not like to do any cleaning for at least the first few days of the new year because it is thought that we would be sweeping away all the luck from the new year. Oh by the way if you don’t know it already, let me just warn you that Chinese people are extremely superstitious.

Reunion Dinner

Traditionally every family will have a family reunion dinner on new years eve, and this will be a feast not just a meal. Even members who are overseas would try to make it back home for this. And coincidentally, my sister is flying back from the UK and will arrive tonight in time for dinner.

Ushering in the New Year

Traditionally also, there is a custom of staying up late to “unsher in the new year” called 守岁/shou sui. It’s believed that doing so is to ensure longevity of our parents.

Red Packets

Also known as 红包 hong bao or ang pao in Malaysia, red packets are basically little red envelopes with money in it and is given to children by married adults. It may be unbelievable that people will just give money away like that but it is irrelavent as to how much is in the packet, it is a symbol of celebration, well wishes and good fortune.

When receiving a hong bao, it is customary to receive with both hands and wish the giver well wishes.

Lion Dance and Dragon Dance

The lion dance is believed to ward off evil and bring luck, while the dragon dance expresses a wish for abundant rain fall for the year.

There are two types of lions for the lion dance: the nothern lions that are smaller, seem more gentle and playful, and always golden; and the southern lions that are bigger, more agile and aggressive, and come in many different colours.

Firecrackers

Until firecrackers were illegal, they were used to ‘ward off evil spirits’.

New Year Visits

Also known as 拜年/bai nian. We basically go from house to house, visiting our relatives and friends. We also bring along some gifts with us as it is rude to go empty handed, and the host will in turn give something back. Usually we will include a few mandarin oranges, which in Cantonese sounds like ‘gold’.

Symbolism of New Year Dishes

Dishes served during the reunion dinner will usually include ingredients which symbolise prosperity:

New Year Cake (年糕/nian gao) – increase in status every year
Sprig rolls – good harvest
Chinese cabbage – growth of all living things
Vermicelli – gold threads
Dumplings – shaped like gold ingots called Fortune God Dumplings
Bamboo shoots – growth in status and good business
Soybean sprouts – shaped like ruyi, a jade ornament that brings good luck
Fish (/yu) – implies ‘nian nian you yu’ meaning there will be surplus every year

Origin of the New Year Cake

I have known nian gao to be the snack to eat during the new year celebration and even throughout the year. My favourite way to eat it is to combine a piece of nian gao and taro, dipped in a light batter and fried until crunchy, served warm. It’s sticky, chewy, and sweet.

It’s said that the nian gao originated in Suzhou during the Spring and Autumn period 770-47BC (Zhou Dynasty) in China. Suzhou was then the capital city of the Wu Kingdom, where its emperor He Lu was assisted by Wu Zixu in administration matters. There was extremely good weather one year which gave the people bountiful harvest for several seasons. Wu Zixu was assigned with the task of storing the harvest surplus. So he ordered that the excess grains to be steamed, mashed into paste, and compressed into bricks. Then the bricks are used to line the inside of the city walls and then covered with another layer of regular bricks. After emperor He Lu died, his son succeeded to the throne. He was power hungry and due to many slanderous rumours, forced Wu Zixu to commit suicide. During that time war caused the Wu Kingdom to fall into famine. That is when the people remembered the rice bricks stored within the walls of the city. To honour Wu Zixu who the people considered had saved their lives, rice bricks were baked and offered during the new year, which slowly evolved into the custom of eating the new year cake.

Origin of Jiao Zi Dumplings

Qing Taizu , the founder of the Qing Dynasty, was a tramp when he was in his early years. One new yeas eve, he ventured into an etremely quiet town. An old man who found him wandering the streets took him in and told him that there was a monsterous beast called ‘mahuzi’ eating people in th village. The people are afraid of going out and once their food source runs out, they will starve to death. Qing Taizu offered to brave the beast and slay it. He found the beast and killed it. The people of the village were extremely greatful and decided that since the beast gave them so much grief, they would mince its meat, wrap it in dough skin, and cook it. From then on, the people celebrated new year’s eve by making the little mince meat filled dough skin caclled jiao zi.

Yuan Xiao Festival

The 元宵节 Yuan Xiao Festival falls on the 15th day of new year which is the first night of a full moon. It is also known as a Lover’s Festival. On this day it is tradition to eat tang yuan, glutinous rice balls which symbolises completeness and happiness.

People also used to have a very interesting way of celebrating this day. There is a belief that on this day, if you throw a mandarin orange into your local river, the person who picks it up is your soulmate. I think the girls throw the mandarins and the guys pick them up. I think the government has banned it because there was just too many mandarins clogging up the rivers.

Origin of Yuan Xiao Festival

During the reign of emperor Wu Di of the Han Dynasty, Dongfang Shuo was strolling in the imperial garden one day. He stumbled upon a girl, Yuan Xiao, who was about to kill herself. He managed to convince her not to do so. She admitted to him that she was admitted into the palace and is not allowed out, therefore she was feeling extremely homesick. She begged him to think of a way to solve her problem. He promised her and headed off to find here family. He cames up with a very elaborate plan which led to the emperor allowing the palace occupants to go out for a night. So Yuan Xiao managed to reunite with her family that night. The emperor was extremely pleased with the result of the night and agreed to make it an annual event.

I am actually not sure how true these stories are but they are rather interesting. Anyway, Happy Chinese New Year everyone!

In front of Disney’s California Adventure Park entrance, Anaheim.

There are two types of gondolas on the Sun Wheel, the stationary ones like on normal Ferris Wheels, and the swinging ones that slide along the blue tracks on the wheel which cause the gondolas to swing (A LOT)! 

Bear Mountain.

Sleeping Beauty’s Castle in Disneyland, Anaheim.

The front of the It’s A Small World ride.

The musical fountain in Toontown.

At the Universal Studios, Hollywood.

The Seaworld San Diego, mascot, donkey. So cute!

At Santa Barbara.

At the Pantages for WICKED, Hollywood.

The Eiffel Tower at Paris, Las Vegas.

L’arc de triomphe at Paris, Las Vegas.

Coming from Le Village Buffet, Paris, Las Vegas.

In front of New York New York, Las Vegas.

At the Mirage for Cirque du Soleil – LOVE, Las Vegas.

Armed with a snowball.

Our attempt at a snowman.

Outskirts of Las Vegas.

An article on chivalry on Yahoo! made me realise how confused guys must be sometimes. If they are too chivalrous, we may think they are just creepy and if they don’t do anything, we think they are jerks. I never really thought about until I read the article. For example, when a guy doesn’t hold the door open when he’s just like a few steps in front of me, I think: “how ungentlemanly”, and if they are holding the door open but I’m actually little ar behind, I will feel the need to walk faster and wish they would just not hold it open. Those poor guys out there who just don’t know what to do in a situation. Although being nice is always the better choice, there’s being nice and then there’s “thinking” you’re being nice. If it’s a simple situation like holding the door open or helping with heavy items, even if we didn’t need it, we would still be thankful. However if it something that is a little more conplicated like a girl and guy having a heated arguement or a girl is alone and totally drunk on the streets, think first before you do anything, doing the wrong thing may just make things worse or get yourself in trouble. But then again, I’m sure it’s not just guys who get into these situations, so I guess everyone must be confused.

On another note, the Australian Open this year was great for men’s tennis! Anyone as stoked as I was that Federer wasn’t in the finals?! Congratz Djokovic and Sharapova.

Taking a que from Cashmere Mafia the new ABC show, it made me very curious as to what do men actually think about being in a relationship with a woman who has a “higher status” in terms of higher paying job and is more successful.

Is it such a crime for a woman who ‘wants it all’? So ok I think that it’s a little sad that these days some people have nannies raising their children for them. If that’s the case I can see how that would make some more ‘conservative’ men prefer their wives to be more family orientated. But I’m sure there are women out there who can juggle family and career. So let’s say that a woman can have a great career while taking care of family business just fine. How does it make a difference if the woman makes more money than the guy? Does that make him feel inferior? Does that make him feel useless? What is it? Is it just an ego thing or is there something deeper?

I guess people will always want to be the best at what they do, irrespective of what gender they are. But why should that have any effect on a relationship? I guess being a person who has no experience what so ever, means I can’t really give my view on the situation. I’m just want to know what people really think about this issue.

Please, please, if you are reading this, please leave a comment tell me what you think. You can be annonymous if you want.

On another note, thanks to the writer’s strike, I’ve started watching two new TV shows: Mad Men and Cashmere Mafia. I’ve only just seen the first episode of both and Mad Men seems to be a very intense drama but it won two Golden Globes this year including one for best Drama Series so I’ll see how that goes. Cashmere Mafia on the other hand is a drama/comedy, more of what I prefer watching. It’s the new Sex and the City but less about the sex and fashion, and more about women in high places.